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Just an Update

D is in the middle of a 12-day straight work stretch, which means he has three call days in the midst of it. Poor guy. Fortunately he can function on very little sleep, so it doesn't seem to be affecting him that much. I'm always prodding him to go to bed earlier because he'd stay up well past midnight if let to himself and this would not be a good recipe for functioning well and taking care of sick patients. However, he's actually enjoying what he's doing in the ICU now probably because he's gotten used to it and is good at it. The "everybody loves David" syndrome has extended to the nurses, the patients, and the patients' families, as well as his colleagues. So I'm sure that makes the twelve-hour (and sometimes thirty-hour) work day much better. What also makes it much better is the fact that he has gotten paid for the first time this week. All his hard work gets rewarded eventually and monetary is definitely an accepted form of reward.

All that to say we haven't been doing too much, although the time is just flying by. We've been here seven weeks already! Sure we go out for dinner here and there (we went out with some friends of D's from PCC the other night who have the cutest little baby boy). And we even went to the movies, you know, the early Saturday morning showing that's really cheap, to see Wanted (A-). Mostly we hang out at home because there's always someone stopping by or just people to talk to/watch movies with/swim in the pool with since we have a houseful.

Baby and I have been doing okay in this heat. Next time, with better planning, we will not be having a baby in the late Summer/early Fall. He's as active as ever and he's continuing on just fine with the hiccups. I go from feeling bad for him, to thinking it's funny, to being annoyed when they don't stop after thirty seconds. We had a doctor's appt the other day and his heartbeat was "strong" and he didn't measure my fundal height this time, but it was right on target when D measured it. I'm almost 33 weeks, so we're in the homestretch. I've even started to think about what to put in the bag we'll be bringing to the hospital and about washing the many clothes and blankets we've already accumulated just to have it out of the way. I just told D last night that I'm starting to get excited about seeing our baby. Of course I have been excited since the moment I found out that we were expecting, but the fact that I can see my baby in just a few more weeks is almost overwhelming. I tell people that I would have liked it if they did third trimester ultrasounds because I'd like to see what exactly he's doing what he moves certain ways. Like, was that a hand, a foot, a leg, or a bottom that just ran into my ribcage? Anyway, he'll be here soon enough. At this point my biggest dilemma is whether to buy a girl and a boy going home outfit or just stick to one of gender-neutral outfits I already have. Mom said she'll buy one once we know the gender, which is an easy way to solve the issue and the solution I'll probably go with, but it's something to think about.

And our house. The closing is in less than two weeks and we seem to be on target for that. I have some cans of paint already that Dad picked up from the "Oops Bin" at Lowe's. It's when they mix colors and the person doesn't like it, so instead of throwing it away, they sell a $25 can of paint for only $5!! :) So I'm not going to be too picky and see if we can't just get all our paint that way. Painting will be the big thing, which is nice because it's not really that big of a deal when you get a lot of helpers together. We'll probably redo the kitchen floor; it's laminate now, so we'll either put nicer, sturdier laminate over it or do wood floors (the kind you do yourself). There are other little projects here and there, but Lord-willing nothing major will pop up. Between everything that's going on, we'll probably shoot to be there by October 1st-ish, two months after closing.

Well, that's all the updating I have for now! Hope you're enjoying the summer!

2 Comments so far »

  1. by Mary , on July 17, 2008 4:01 PM

    I guess doctors have to be able to function on few hours of sleep at times. They don't always have the luxury of messing up because their brain is tired.

    Wow, you've been there 7 weeks already? That seems like forever! Time has flown by.

    I remember Matthew getting the hiccups when I'd lay down to sleep at night. At first I didn't know what it was. I thought he was rhythmically punching or that it was his heartbeat, but looking back I think it was merely hiccups. They were funny to me at first, and then they got annoying too :) I can't believe you are going to have your baby soon! It's so exciting to meet him/her for the first time. I mean, Baby's been growing in you for 9 months, but you've not officially met yet. It's a whole new ballpark when that happens.

    Yes, wash the clothes and blankets ahead of time. Wash up to three month or six month size to give you less to worry about. In those first several weeks, you'll go through outfits fast because of spit up and leaks of the wet and dirty variety.

    I didn't know about the "oops bin." I'll have to keep that in mind when we get a house with rooms to paint. And speaking of, you better not be painting, missy. Stay away from those fumes! :)

  2. by Sara , on July 17, 2008 6:53 PM

    I'm glad Dave is doing so well with ICU. I guess it's a good thing that he started off with one of the toughest rotations--it will make all the rest seem that much easier/nicer.

    I remember having an ultrasound done when I had to go into the hospital about 2 wks before I delivered (they were worried I was getting preeclampsia and wanted to run some tests). They were just checking the amount of fluid, so they didn't stop to show me anything, but I was amazed how we couldn't see ALL of her on the screen at once, like we could at the 20-wk ultrasound.

    I always wondered which body parts were poking me too. My dr could always tell me.... "Oh, here's her back, and her butt, and her feet"--and I was always thinking, "How does he KNOW that?" Guess that's why he's the doctor and not me. :)

    Ari is sitting next to me right now with a babydoll on her lap, telling me the baby is going night-night. She is just entering that stage where she loves her babydolls--so cute! :) Oh... now she's rocking the baby in her arms. :)