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Dinners and Movies

This is basically what our weekend consisted of (see title if you are confused). It was fun and relaxing and actually I wouldn't mind a few more of these in my lifetime. Friday night, D made us a pasta dinner. He was available to make dinner because he got home, post-call, just before I was leaving for work on Friday morning. I guess Friday was supposed to be a light day, so he decided to make his weekend a three-day one. He said people call it the "Golden Weekend" because a lot of surgeons have Q3 call, so they usually work either a Friday, a Saturday, or a Sunday. Anyway, the dinner was yummy (no surprise there) and we headed off to the movie theater to catch the 7:45 showing. I can't remember the last time I was at the movies on a Friday night. And I probably know why. There was a TON of teenie-boppers swarming the place. All I could keep thinking was, "I'm sooo glad I'm not your age anymore, I'm sooo glad I'm not your age anymore." I asked D if the movie we were seeing was rated R because it was about the only time that I wished any movie was. It wasn't.
But I guess Breach didn't pass the cool test because I didn't see so many kids in there. Lots of older people and couples, more my type of atmosphere! The movie was great. Here's a synopsis offered by IMDb: Based on the true story, FBI upstart Eric O'Neill enters into a power game with his boss, Robert Hanssen, an agent who was ultimately convicted of selling secrets to the Soviet Union. Rotten Tomato critics gave it an 82% and their users gave it 92%, which is really high. I would agree with the users' rating. D and I like movies based on real-life events and we also like mind thrillers. This was both. On the way home, we stopped at the food store to get some raspberry sorbet. I had been craving it and didn't want to make another trip to Coldstone so soon. We had some frozen raspberries in our freezer that were just dying to make their way into some sorbet, so I was nice and let them. It was a really nice late-night snack, and even somewhat healthy. What's even better is that I still have enough for about three more servings...YUM!

Saturday we went on some errands...like to fix my new, but finicky cell phone at Verizon in the nearby mall. Auntie Anne's pretzels just happened to be right next to the Verizon store, so after all my hard work getting a cell phone replacement, we went got Pretzel Stixx. We had a buy one, get one coupon, which is why we tried them. They're easier to eat and they taste the same, but I still like the original pretzel shape. That night, we reversed things and went out to dinner and stayed in for the movie. We had a $5 off coupon for Chili's that we had to use by February 28th, as well as a few gift cards we got from a few people at Christmas. My new thing to do there is get the chips and salsa appetizer (of course, D shares them, too) and then just get Broccoli and Cheese soup with a Caesar salad for my meal. Since the chips and salsa are endless, I always, always, always, get full on them and wish I hadn't ordered so much meal. So it's been working out great. Next time, though, I think we'll try the Italian restaurant owned by the same group that owns Chili's called Maggiano's Little Italy (so you can use the same gift card). It's right next to the Chili's we go to in Delaware. Could anything be better than the Olive Garden?? We'll just have to see.

We were supposed to go home and watch One Night with the King, but neither of us was in the mood for it. We ended up watching it Sunday night. It was a good movie, but I was expecting something more out of it. I don't know why. Rotten Tomato users gave it a 66% and I agree with them. D wasn't so into it either. Oh well, I guess it doesn't do justice to the biblical account. That about wrapped up our nice, relaxing weekend.

SURPRISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My parents were planning on coming down last Friday, the 16th. I'm still not convinced that D didn't call and beg them to come early to avoid the whole cleaning thing. I made it very clear that Thursday evening was going to be spent...improving...the appearance of our apartment. So you can imagine my complete surprise when, around 4:30pm on that same Thursday we should have been cleaning, I heard a knock on the apartment door. Actually you don't have to imagine it; my dad was standing there capturing my reaction on video while my mom was standing next to him laughing. My brother Nick, who watched this video later, said I rattled off about five questions in a row not bothering to wait for an answer to any of them. I was so taken aback at their early arrival because my parents are rarely early for things. My mom said she wanted to see how my apartment really looks like—thanks Mom!

By the time the initial shock wore off, D had called and said he was on his way home. We decided to go to Delaware for dinner and ended up at the Olive Garden. Dad said that after every time he goes there, he says it’ll be the last time, but I enjoyed their fare. It was so fun and so random. All my evening plans were thrown out the window and were replaced with better, more enjoyable ones! Before bed we watched Magma…which was a Mom-pick from Netflix. Mom is notorious for, shall we say, less than interesting movie selections, but this one was actually okay.

The next morning, D and I had to get up for work as usual. I had been planning on leaving work early, around 2pm, ever since I knew Dad and Mom were coming. I told Mom not to bother visiting my class since it was a short day and we had a lot going on. However, around 9:30am, she showed up and my class was shocked that first I even had a mother and second that she was visiting them. Many of my coworkers know my mom since she’s been a frequent guest over the years. She made the rounds to say hello and even disappeared a few times after that to go socialize. The morning went by quickly and we had to set up for the surprise baby shower we were giving someone at work. Mom was a big help then, too. After the guest of honor had opened all her gifts, it was time for Mom and me to go. When we got back to the apartment, Dad was there along with his brother Vinny and his mom, both from Florida. D called soon after that to say he was on his way home, so our afternoon could really begin.

All of us piled into Dad’s Lincoln and headed out. Our first stop: The Philly Pretzel Factory. They opened a store right near us and Dad couldn’t have been more pleased. I guess he always got this type of pretzel as a kid (there are actually two pretzels in this picture...they're not your typically-shaped pretzel). Another good thing about them, they’re 3 for $1! Why couldn’t Auntie Anne’s be that cheap!?!?!? So, Dad got 50 pretzels…for only $11…too many if you ask me, but we all munched on them throughout their visit. After a few more stops, we arrived back at our apartment where Dad made all of us a turkey dinner. Uncle Vinny and Grandma left soon after and the rest of us again piled into the Lincoln and headed for the mall. Mom (and Dad ended up getting some, too) wanted soft-serve ice cream, which we found, and D and I shared a…what a surprise…raspberry smoothie! :)

The next day, Saturday, D was on call all day and overnight, which is another reason I was so happy to have my parents here. Dad, Mom, and I got up to go to my dad’s mom’s sister’s estranged husband’s funeral. My great Uncle Tootie. He was Italian. And so were most of the people at the funeral. Which had scenes of Godfather flashing through my mind the entire time. You know: the accents, the sunglasses, the long black overcoats, the Italian facial features, the food, the hugging, and the kissing. It was quite the experience, being my first funeral. I met more relatives I never knew I had at that funeral than at any other time in my life put together. All of them were older than me, so they knew of me, but trying to keep everyone’s names straight got progressively difficult. Of course, if you shouted, “Vincent” or “Anthony” I swear half the people would look at you, so that made things easier. I also saw relatives I hadn’t seen in years and years, which was nice…and awkward. I mean, what do you say, “Oh, it’s so nice to see you!” at a gathering you’re only there for because a loved one died. But anyway, it turned out to be an all-afternoon outing, from about 11am to 4:30pm. We started in Philly at the funeral home and crossed into Jersey for the funeral service, the burial, and the food. If you asked us, though, it felt like we went up and down the Atlantic Coast twice before arriving at each destination. Either everything in Jersey is way too spread out or the family was very particular as to where everything should be. Oh well, we survived…oops, umm, no pun intended!!

Sunday was departure day, but we still managed to fit in some fun before everyone left. Dave got home around 7am and went to sleep until we left because he had had a lot of traumas. Dad picked Grandma up from Jersey and then we all went to breakfast at Nifty Fifties. Then we headed into the city to visit Reading Terminal Market! Dad couldn’t find a parking space, so only Dave, Grandma, and I went inside. We didn’t stay too long, which was okay because my pretzel place wasn’t opened because it was Sunday. Grandma enjoyed looking at all the food though!
We made our way to her childhood hot spots and even stopped at this Italian pastry shop (in the background). They have pictures of all the famous people that have been there decorating the inside. It was such a cute, little place. I could totally see Grandma going there all those decades ago. The last stop was this grinder shop that was located practically under a bridge in this little trailer-type structure. I would think you would have to know where it is to even know about it, but I guess everyone knows about it because there was a very steady stream of customers pouring in and out. Notice how our morning was spent in search of food... From there, we went back to our apartment, packed up the rest of their things, and waved goodbye!

Secret Message??

I was bringing this bag to work on Friday, so I left it near the door on Thursday night. From Dad's perspective on the couch, this bag said something very different from "Walmart." Can you tell what is says? I'm certain the message wasn't directed towards Dad; I've never, ever heard him tell a lie my entire life!


Valentine's Day

You 'n Me

We celebrated Valentine’s Day in two parts this year, which is unusual since we don’t really make a big deal out of it. I guess things worked together just right and I didn’t mind one bit! On Sunday, D surprised me by getting us (half-off) tickets to a chamber concert at a local college. It was entitled “Warm and Cool” because it was a combination of classical and jazz music. The jazz actually came first, the “cool” part, and then the “warm” classical. The concert lasted about an hour and a half and it was such a neat experience. I am as partial to jazz as D is to classical, but each of us enjoys the other genre. I know everyone enjoyed the jazz arrangements because I saw a lot of head-bopping and toe-tapping…and even a little finger-snapping. It calmed down for Mozart’s Quintet in E Flat Major for Piano and Winds, but this piece was also very well done. After the concert, we went to Coldstone Creamery for a late afternoon snack. D printed out the buy-one, get-one coupon we got in an e-mail and then used our gift card we got for Christmas to pay for the “buy one.” It’s a very good thing that I don’t mind being a cheap date!

At the concert

Then, tonight, we braved the weather and went to a local restaurant that D found online using Restaurant.com. Since it was V Day, the website was having a promotion that allowed you to buy their gift certificates for half price. Again, D got an awesome deal…a $10 gift certificate for only $1.50 and a free $10 gift certificate to use another time. Go David! Anyway, the food was de-lish and I’m hoping we can use that other gift certificate to go to that same restaurant again!

And what did David get out of the whole deal? I got him those new, pyramid tea bags from Lipton. The mandarin orange green tea kind. After closely inspecting the bags, he brewed some tea for us and it's tasty. For all the hype, it really was a happy Valentine's day.

Hibernating

I was contemplating the other day why it is that I don’t blog as much as I once did. I brought it up to David saying we haven’t been going out and doing things as much lately and I was wondering why and how we have gotten so boring. Of course he was ready with an answer and said, "It’s winter, there isn’t so much to do and this is when people typically stay indoors more." That’s exactly it…we’re hibernating. “Plus,” he said, “don’t you like not spending money?” He had an excellent point there! So, we’ve been either hanging around our apartment, going out to eat once in awhile, going shopping when I can convince him, and watching Netflix movies when they decide to send them. It's quite a change of pace for me since I'm always go, go, going, but I think I can get used to this.

In honor of my newfound hibernation phase, David took me to the library to get some books out. I got some good ones, including The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell. D and I read his second book, Blink, last year and absolutely loved it. The Tipping Point is a book about sociology, about how little changes can have big effects; when small numbers of people start behaving differently, that behavior can ripple outward until a critical mass or "tipping point" is reached, changing the world. Gladwell's thesis that ideas, products, messages and behaviors "spread just like viruses do" remains a metaphor as he follows the growth of "word-of-mouth epidemics" triggered with the help of three pivotal types. These are Connectors, sociable personalities who bring people together; Mavens, who like to pass along knowledge; and Salesmen, adept at persuading the unenlightened. (Paul Revere, for example, was a Maven and a Connector). Gladwell's applications of his "tipping point" concept to current phenomena--such as the drop in violent crime in New York, the rebirth of Hush Puppies suede shoes as a suburban mall favorite, teenage suicide patterns and the efficiency of small work units--may arouse controversy (Thank you to Publisher's Weekly). I'm totally into this book. I love sociology-related research. There's another book along the same lines called Freakonomics by Steven Levitt. That was very good, too. Well I didn't mean for this to turn into a book review, but reading will be a regular part of this hibernating phase. That and finishing up my Portfolio for my Master's degree. Do I know how to have a good time, or what?!

ALDI Is Famous!!

It was interesting to hear that the little food store we shop here at in Pennsylvania made headline news in Connecticut. From the looks if it, it's not going to be so little anymore! D found, during his endless hours of either fiddling or researching, a store called Aldi that has really good prices on good quality items. So we tried it out and have been going there ever since. It's not like your typical Stop & Shop or Big Y (which is the point) in that you bring your own bags, you have to pay with cash or debit only, and you need to insert a quarter into your shopping cart to get it loose from the others...you get the quarter back once you snap your cart back into place with all the other carts. It's all very rudimentary, but it's inexpensive and that's really the bottom line for us! Inexpensive as in we went shopping last weekend and spent $43.44 to pack our fridge and freezer which will last us a month. I always go out for fresh fruits and veggies when necessairy, but that's about it. Another cool thing we learned was that Aldi owns another of our favorite food stores: Trader Joe's! While we were shopping last week, we kept on mentioning how much Aldi reminded us of a scaled-down Trader Joe's, and, well, we were right! Anyway, below is the article published in the Hartford Courant that D and I agree could have been written by us because it totally defines our food shopping experience there. I'm not exactly sure why I find this all to be so cool, so if you don't share in my awe and excitement, I will totally understand!


From courant.com
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Aldi Gets Aggressive
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Low-Price, No-Frills German Grocery Chain To Add 50 Stores In State

By JANICE PODSADA
Courant Staff Writer

February 11, 2007

WALLINGFORD -- Three years ago when Kristen Torres, a new bride, complained to her family about the high price of groceries, her Aunt Gilda told her to shop at Aldi Foods.

Except for a few stops at Wal-Mart and Big Y, Torres, 22, and her husband, Vinny, 24, say they now do most of their grocery shopping at Aldi, a chain that now has four stores in Connecticut.

"We get all our basics here," Kristen Torres said as she unbuckled her 10-month-old son, Vincente, from the back seat of her car.

For the past seven years, Aldi has been an almost unnoticeable presence in the state. Now the privately owned German retailer plans to build a 500,000-square-foot distribution center in South Windsor that would supply about 70 proposed Aldi Food stores - 50 in Connecticut and 20 in Massachusetts and Rhode Island. When completed, the distribution center would employ about 75.

At a time when grocery chain stores seem to fall into one of two categories - the football-field-sized warehouse or the luxurious specialty store with hardwood floors and an espresso bar - Aldi is a throwback.

The company offers plain vanilla, no-frills, no-Muzak ambience in exchange for low prices: $3.99 for a Tyson-brand whole roasted chicken, 79 cents for a four-pack of pudding cups and 89 cents for a loaf of L'Oven Fresh wheat bread.

"You pay half the price," Torres said. "I love the fact that milk is always $1.99 a gallon."

Bucking the mega-size trend in size and selection, the typical Aldi store, which measures about 18,000 square feet, is a little larger than the traditional neighborhood grocery store.

Unlike big chain stores that carry more than 25,000 brands, Aldi stores stock fewer than 1,000, 90 percent of which are its own private-label brands. Merchandise is stacked on rolling steel pallets. Aldi sells some fresh fruits and vegetables, but they are prepackaged, as is the small selection of fresh meats. There's no pharmacy and no meat counter, and there are no splashy displays.

Aldi hopes to break ground on the warehouse this spring and complete construction by the fall of 2008, said Bruce Persohn, vice president of the company's northeastern division.

Officials at the company's U.S. headquarters in Batavia, Ill., referred questions to Persohn, whose office is in South Windsor.

When and where those 70 new stores will open is a question.

"We're in the infant stages of our site selection," said Persohn, who declined to disclose details of the expansion.

However, if history is any indicator, Aldi will hold off opening stores until it has the cash on hand, said Neil Z. Stern, a senior partner with McMillan/Doolittle LLP, a Chicago-based retail consulting firm.

"They're a very different retail company," said Stern, who has been tracking Aldi for 20 years. "They own all their own stores. They don't take on any debt. Aldi builds stores only as fast as their profits allow - they don't add any more stores than the cash allows."

The Wallingford store is in a strip mall, but Aldi also builds new standalone stores and leases existing space. Each store employs seven to 10 workers, Persohn said.

Haven't heard of Aldi?

In Europe, Aldi Group is one of the largest retail grocery chains. There it sells not only groceries, but also small appliances, computers and wireless phone service, according to Hoovers.com.

Aldi is co-owned by two brothers, Karl and Theo Albrecht. In 1948, the two founders opened their first stores in Essen, Germany.

The brothers, now in their 80s, have a combined net worth of more than $32 billion, $10 billion less than Warren Buffett, the world's second-richest person, according to the Forbes 2006 list of the world's richest people.

With more than 7,500 stores worldwide, Aldi brings in about $35 billion in annual sales. It ventured into the U.S. market in 1976, and now has 700 stores in the Midwest and Northeast. Each year those stores contribute about $5 billion to the company's annual sales, according to Hoover.com.

"In the U.S., their historic appeal has been to people who need to save money," Stern said. "In Germany, they appeal to everybody."

Industry analysts say Aldi may be planning to open 200 stores in the United States in the next three years.

The food market, in general, isn't growing, making competitors search for ways to target specific consumers, Stern said.

"Rather than try to take on those entrenched grocery chains, they nibble around the edges and go after the niches - the markets a traditional grocery chain can't serve," Stern said.

While many stores are courting an upscale clientele, Aldi is targeting the downscale market, Stern said. But its customers don't think they're skimping on quality by shopping at Aldi.

Does the store's selection of frozen entrees and fish fillets look familiar? Does it invoke a deja vu-like response, as if the freezer might have been lifted from a Trader Joe's?

Good guess. Aldi Group owns Trader Joe's grocery stores, which it purchased in 1979. And according to Forbes.com, the company owns an 8 percent stake in Albertsons LLC grocery stores.

Taking a cue from Costco, Aldi Stores also stock some general merchandise items, such as crockpots, digital TVs and the occasional $16.99 children's table and chair set. They appear haphazardly, advertised in the in-store flier, "Next Week @ Aldi."

"They use general merchandise to create traffic in the stores," Stern said. "It's a little bit of like the Costco treasure hunt stuff."

For the past seven or eight years, Aldi has plodded along with just four stores in Connecticut, in Wallingford, Torrington, Waterbury and Bristol. Aldi's competitors include Wal-Mart Stores Inc. and Costco Warehouse Corp.

In their race to woo thrifty consumers, Aldi's strategy is more turtle than hare, although construction of the warehouse is expected to pick up the pace.

"Like Wal-Mart, they build their warehouse first, and then the stores," Stern said.

Zoning for the warehouse has been cleared by South Windsor, Town Manager Matthew Galligan said. Officials there have assembled a tax-abatement package and a plan to improve roads that would lead to the planned distribution center. The town council will be asked to approve those things in March, Galligan said.

Aldi is also in talks with state economic development officials, according to an agency spokesman, James Watson.

A Quarter For A Cart

Need to run to the store for a late-night snack? With Aldi, that's not an option.

Most of its stores are open Monday through Saturday from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. Only recently have they opened on Sunday for a short seven-hour run, from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.

"Sometimes it's an inconvenience. We work around the hours," Kristen Torres said. Thus, it's not unusual to drop in on a weekday morning and find the Wallingford store fairly busy.

On a recent Friday morning, some older shoppers and young couples loaded up their carts as they swung through the store's short, six-aisle course.

"The prices are lower than other stores," said Jolnina Szyjko, 70, of Meriden, as she loaded her groceries into the trunk of her car. "I shop here every week."

Like other regulars, Szyjko knows that shopping at Aldi's is BYOB - bring your own bags; otherwise, it costs 10 cents apiece to purchase the store's heavy-duty plastic ones. And customers are expected to bag their own groceries.

Vinny Torres always knows when his wife wants to go shopping at Aldi. She starts fishing in her purse for a quarter.

Like many customers, Kristen Torres did not realize when she first stopped at Aldi's three years ago that the store charges a quarter to rent a shopping cart. (The practice is common in Europe.) The quarter is refunded when the cart is returned. Although it's somewhat inconvenient, it reduces the number of stray carts in the parking lot.

Kristen Torres said it's now second nature for her to check that either she or her husband has a quarter handy. "We usually keep `the' quarter in the ashtray of our car," she said.

Occasionally, however, they come up short.

"People are nice here." Kristen Torres said. "If you forget your quarter, they'll lend you one."

Contact Janice Podsada at jpodsada@courant.com.
Copyright 2007, Hartford Courant

Mid-Year Report Card

D doesn't know I'm posting this, so shhhhhhhhhhh. He's done so well thus far in third year and here are the grades to prove it:

Pediatrics - HP
Medicine - HP
Family Medicine - HP

HP = High Pass very, very good. Honors is best, but is reserved for the top 5% of the class. I'm not looking for him to be that good because that means all he is doing is studying. Anyway, like anyone ever had any doubt... :)

Opinions Welcome


D started our (okay, technically his) Netflix subscription this weekend and between the two of us, we compiled a list of 19 movies we would like to see in the next three months. I was thinking about how many hours this would add up to and then quickly decided not to think about it. I figure it's a cheap date, so cheap in fact, that we only need to pop the popcorn. That’s okay, it’s how we like it. D wanted my input because he wants to watch most of these movies with me, but can you guess the one or two he sneaked in before my I could catch them?? I have to say, though, that it's a good thing we have very similar tastes (for the most part) in movies. Below is our queue, additions and subtractions are welcome!

The Usual Suspects
Munich
Crank
One Night with the King
Hostage
House of Sand and Fog
Lady in the Water
Derailed
Facing the Giants
The Guardian
Wordplay
This Film is Not Yet Rated
Unknown
The Break-Up
The Prestige
Blood Diamond (yet to be released)
Casino Royale (yet to be released)
Déjà Vu (yet to be released)
The Good Shepherd (yet to be released)

Happy Groundhog Day!

Well Punxsutawney Phil didn’t see his shadow today, which means Spring should be on its way asap. However, as we read in one of our books today in kindergarten, “The groundhog could be right, or the groundhog could be wrong.” I thought that was stating the obvious, but the chorus of oooohhhhs from my audience told me different. Then I started to explain what a legend was, and, well, that didn’t go over so clearly (I could tell by the glazed over looks on their faces), so I quickly transitioned to this video of the cute little rodents. We discussed other animals that the groundhog reminded us of and I was impressed by their list: guinea pigs (Dougie is always on the mind), squirrels, raccoons, beavers, and porcupines.



On a non-kindergarten note, not much happening in the way of entertainment over here. I hear my parents may be down in a few weekends, which coincides with my grandma from Florida’s visit. And one of my brothers and his girlfriend are coming down mid-March for a long weekend. And we’ll be in CT again at the end of March for a few days of D’s week-long break in between rotations. It’s stomach-knotting to think that this time next year we’ll be anxiously (well I will be anxious, D will be patient…) awaiting the result of The Match, which determines where we’ll be living for at least the next five years, if not forever. Anyway, for now D took me to Olive Garden (the closest one is in Delaware, a 20-minute drive) last night for dinner and we stopped at a nearby Best Buy to finally use up the $8.81 still left on a gift card we got for Christmas two years ago. We like shopping in Delaware because there isn’t any sales tax. We finally used up a gift card we had to Trader Joe’s last week and we still have a dollar left on a movie theater gift card, both from two Christmases ago. I told D we need to use them because we got more than enough replacements this Christmas.

Tonight D is on call and I’m making a taco dinner with A along with watching a movie that she will pick out and bring over. Last time she asked if we could watch a movie and the only age appropriate one I had was Wild Hearts Can’t Be Broken, which she took absolutely no interest in. I told her I only had grown up movies, so she said she’d have to bring one with her next time... Speaking of movies, D was saying he might start up the three-month subscription to Netflix he got for Christmas this weekend. We both have been maintaining a list of movies that we would like to see, so the queue will be nice and full. Oh yes, almost forgot…HAPPY 23rd BIRTHDAY, RYAN!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)