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Tuesday Mish Mash

Lots of little things going on here and there. I really should dedicate an entire post to Micah, he's growing up so quickly and changing so much. I enjoy his company and watching him learn and say new things. He's quite the conversationalist--with anyone and everyone. People are so gracious in the stores, going along with his stream of nonsensical words, nodding, and responding. It's fun to see that side of people, too, one that only a little one can bring out! He's such a little mimicker, too...of words, but especially of sounds and noises. I decided to extend his First Year calendar into a however-many-years-I-keep-it-up-calendar. It's something I will easily be able to do for however many kids we end up having, and it's a great replacement for a baby book that I'd probably never get around to doing (he has one for all his pre-birth and birth stuff, but then the calendar took over). I hang the calendar (that I got for $1) on fridge and write a snippet of something we did that day or a new word or sound that he said or anything that I think he might find interesting in years to come. It's working out great so far!

Another Micah project I have in the works is printing out some pictures of our baby in utero and putting them up on the fridge. Not sure if it'll help him make the connection, but it might since he's a smart one. I have a list of big brother books I want to check out from the library, too, so maybe that'll help. He's already fascinated with his little cousin Brea-Brea so this very well might be a waste of time, but you never know what will click when with toddlers. We're also making a baby collage by cutting out pictures of babies (and I might dig up a few family members' baby pictures for him to see), but Dad had a better idea: have the babies be with a big brother-type figure. Anyway, just trying to introduce him to the world of babies a few different ways.

Yet another thing we're working on (M and me) is starting the seedlings for our garden. We bought some seeds from the dollar store and the food store (and I have some basil seeds from my basil plant Rita gave me last year) that we're going to start sprouting in egg cartons. All you have to do it cut an X in the bottom of each egg holder, fill with soil, plant seeds, water until sprouts appear, and then plant in the garden. The egg carton is biodegradable, so you plant that right into the ground. Last year I got a late start (in May) in my garden because I didn't know this sprout-indoors secret.

Last night Mom had another one of her haircutting parties. There had to be at least twenty people there, some husbands included. A few people from our church were there and they had kids M's age, so he was a happy man. He did so well sharing all of the toys at Grammy's house (I never call them his, I just say "the toys" in hopes of lessening the greediness...don't know if it works or not, but it's worth a try!). I only heard a few "no, no"s when someone went near something he had and he was promptly corrected by Daddy or me. It's hard to teach a first child to share because most of the time they aren't around people who care to share their toys. Over the past few months I've been pretending I want a few of his toys as he was playing with them and used those times to teach sharing. Being in the church nursery three times a week also helps, I'm sure! All that to say that he had a great time with friends and I did, too! Mom always outdoes herself with the food she makes and since she's cooking healthier like us, it's always that much more yummy to eat! Last night she made crockpot orange chicken and brown rice along with some very tasty desserts. People filled in the rest: veggie platter, cheese and cracker platter, salad, rolls, and drinks. I didn't get anything done to my hair (Dad had recently cut it and did a great job), but Mom said people liked the results, so I'm sure there'll be another one in the near future.

D is on call for Easter, otherwise we'd all have matching outfits. Mom bought Micah and Brea matching outfits for the occasion and I have a dress that matches M's suit. I can't wait to see them together, they're going to look too adorable! Since Easter isn't all about new outfits, I'm reading a portion of the Easter story each day to M. I'm sure he isn't getting a lot of it, but again, you never know how much they understand. I won't be doing egg-dying with my kids, since bunnies and candy and eggs are not what Easter is all about, but there are a few other fun activities we will be doing (Easter cookies, Resurrection eggs, and I think I will do baskets, but with cross-centered items, not meaningless junk that gets thrown out in a week). We'll do egg dying on the first day of Spring, along with eating our free Rita's Water Ice, so no one is confused as to what Easter really means.

Free Rita's and Ben and Jerry's, all in the same week!





M had such a good time feeding these geese and ducks a few weeks ago. I'm sure it'll become a habit in the summer when it's warmer and less windy!



Alright, it's time to go scrounge up meal #14 of the day. I'm eating us out of house and home, rather, this baby is making me eat us out of house and home. Amazing pregnancies can be so different. With M, I ate only the suggested extra granola bar a day for the first two semesters. But this one...I should keep a food journal. I think I'd surprise myself!

Bigger Family, Bigger Car

In anticipation of this baby, as well as in consideration of my back (which has been pulled or twisted a few times since bending in the car to put my larger-than-average son in and out of his infant carseat) we took the plunge and bought a van. Not just any van: a Grand Caravan van. So there is no mistaking that what I am driving is indeed a van. I'm so not a van person. I thought I'd be able to survive any number of kids in a Volvo, but if you've seen my Volvo, it looks like I already have any number of kids, not the one that I do have. Vans just seem so cliche, but now I know why: they are very functional and they support back health. We've been in the market for a used one (we never buy new) for a few weeks, but at Nick's going away party on Saturday, Dad found out that a friend of the family was selling his 1999 Dodge Grand Caravan. We test drove it that night (on our way back from free Rita's water ice, yum! Not to be confused with free Ben & Jerry's ice cream yesterday, which was also, yum!) and decided to buy it for a great price. I've had to take M out to the van for a few tours and of course he's loving it. He loves to play in any car, but this one he can actually walk around in and climb on the back seats and stand on them. So I just try to look casual sitting in a parked van in my own driveway for minutes on end...




I got the van officially registered today and transferred the necessary equipment from the Volvo to the van, including M's carseat. As I was strapping it in, he climbed in and asked to be buckled, so I asked him, "Where do you want to go, Micah?" Without pause he said, "Grpa." You can imagine the tears when I pulled him out and told him "nap" instead. Ironically enough, Grpa stopped by, but M was still napping! Anyway, we're off to Grpa's now that I hear him chattering (he wakes up with a burst of conversation, it's quite funny to hear!).

Micah is Going to be a Big Brother

I am here to attest to the fact that dollar store pregnancy tests do, in fact, work. D went to the store and got two (when he went to get M some play glasses, matter of fact…see nerdy picture a few blog posts ago…) on Valentine’s Day because he wanted me to take a test and I said I would as long as it was from the dollar store.


It came out very positive (changed in a few seconds instead of the recommended three minutes) and I’ve been feeling not-so-well since a few days later. Which leads me to believe that I am carrying a girl (or multiples, my mother hopes and prays…) because this pregnancy is so different than M’s. I’m going with the idea that M gave me an easy time in utero and a hard time sleeping for six months afterwards, so this baby is giving me a hard time now and will be an angel baby (like cousin Breana!!) on the outside. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it. D has been absolutely wonderful, per usual, and is super excited about this baby even though it will mean more responsibility at home and at work (next year's residency schedule is a bit more demanding than this year).

Now I’m just praying for a relatively mild summer, like last summer, so my big belly and I will be relatively comfortable. It’s nice that I don’t have to buy an entirely new maternity wardrobe, although I borrowed a lot from a friend’s daughter in PA (which I obviously had to give back), so I might add a few new pieces here and there.

Here’s what we know so far: I’m ten weeks and two days along and am due around October 16th. We went to the doctor today for our first visit and she confirmed all this. However, since I had a C-section for M and want another one for this baby, they schedule it about a week before the due date. Mom said I should ask for October 10th, you know, 10-10-2010. It’s a Sunday, so I probably won’t be able to do it, but I’m thinking end of September-ish sounds even better. I like big babies, but not having to carry him/her around any longer than necessary is very appealing. Especially since I’m already showing…quite noticeably. The doctor was also able to find baby's heartbeat and it was strong in the 160s. We aren’t going to find out if s/he is a boy or girl, surprises are fun and I have plenty of neutral clothing for the first few weeks. We don’t have a preference, although D said it’d be nice to have a girl. I like having a boy, so I wouldn’t mind another one, but again it’s already decided and we’ll be happy with either! We're very excited about welcoming another little one :)!

New Niece Today!....and she's here!!...and I saw her!

If all goes according to plan, Micah will have a new cousin exactly 18 months after he was born...today, March 15th! Yana is being induced today at the hospital where D works as I write this (told him he can't sneak up to see the baby before me if she arrives during work hours!!). We are so excited to welcome her into our growing family and can't wait to see what she looks like and hold her and all the fun things that go along with having a baby (including being able to give her back to her mommy and daddy and get a good night's sleep!). Yana wants to go all natural, so please pray all goes well with that and our little girl is born safe and healthy...and soon! Ry and Yana have been such a great and involved uncle and auntie pair with M, so we all know what wonderful parents they will be! I'll post an update as soon as I know anything!!

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Breana London was born early this morning, March 16th, at 3:29am at 8.5 pounds and 21" long. Got that info from Mom via text around 4:30am since she was there to witness the birth! Ry sent me a picture this morning and her eyes were WIDE open. Can't wait to see her in person, although I think D might beat me there :(. M has a doctor's appointment and then it's naptime right at the beginning of visiting hours! I won't be posting a picture here, so contact Ry or Yana...or Mom or Dad...if you would like to see M's first cousin on his mommy's side!

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M and I followed Dad and Mom to the hospital before M's doctor's appointment around noontime, so we did get to see Breana today!!!!! I admit that I hogged her almost the entire time I was there (about 40 minutes), but I couldn't help it. She is such an adorable, quite, cute, cuddly little girl with a TON of dark hair. She looks totally like Yana's side of the family face on, but somehow she has Ryan's profile. M saw her and said "Hi BeeBee" but didn't pay her much mind after that, which was nice and odd. Nice because I got to hold Breana without interruption and odd because I thought he'd mind me holding another baby. He loves her already! Can't wait to hog, I mean hold, her in the days and weeks to come. Oh yes, D was able to tear himself away from his work and visit while we were there. I let him hold the baby for a good minute. I was feeling generous. We are heading up to Boston for a few days tomorrow (D's on vacation until Monday), so I had better start packing. Maybe we can sneak in another visit to the hospital on our way up there tomorrow...we have to pass right by it...